Wednesday, January 20, 2010
-MOM! I TOLD YOU NOT......
-YOU GUYS WENT OUT WITHOUT ME??!!
-I HATE THIS PLACE!...IT SUCKS!
-WILL EVERYONE JUST LEAVE ME ALONE?
-I HATE IT WHEN YOU DO THAT!
-STOP! YOU ARE GETTING ON MY NERVES!
-I HATE IT, I HATE IT, I HATE IT!
Do you see yourself in any of these? I definitely do and If you say NO, you are in all probability lying to yourself or just not realizing it. Believe me, we are all slowly turning into some kind of frenzied and irritable RAGAHOLICS (if that is even a word)! But isn’t that justified? We are all young people right, we want things our way, we want the world to listen, to understand, we have a constant adrenalin rush and we want to vent out all the anger, hatred and irritation and to get it out of our system…RIGHT!!!.... no wait a minute….WRONG…totally WRONG!
I’m not exactly patience personified myself but what’s with this constant need of people’s to vent it out, shout at everything, express their discontent in the most unpleasant of ways ? It’s not like we are the only one’s out here with problems, LIFE IS NEVER EASY…and if we haven't realized that yet, we can’t go around showering all that rage on the people around us whom we take for granted.
Its OK to shout at Mom cause she loves me….its Ok to be irritated with Dad cause he’s anyway not going to disinherit me…and its totally OK doing that to my friends cause they do it to me too….and why not shout about how crazy the professors are and call them names behind their backs, they would never know!!!
We do this all the time….think about for a second and you will agree with me. If you never get angry there’s something wrong with you, because anger is an emotion, it’s like a response that our mind / body give when posed with threat or harm. Suppression of anger all the time is not healthy but then why have the need to be angry all the time in the first place when you can be composed and happy?
I honestly feel that people who have frequent , uncontrollable fits of anger are more pathologically ill than anything else! Sometimes I feel as though the negative vibes of anger coming from a person are almost like some kind of radioactive radiations (the really harmful kind ones that too ). I have a ‘Thought for the day’ book in my room and today’s thought is- ‘ Everytime a man becomes angry he adds to the pollution around him’. I couldn’t agree more!